He is changing

He is making a difference.

      For eight  years he has been staying at home  except is that going to school. What does he do when staying at home？  According to himself, he is doing homework, doing homework, doing homework….    Oh, my goodness. Evil work.  Evil homework. Doing homework have become the evil  excuse    to stay at home.  I have no  choice but to watch him stay at home in silence, feeling worried , troubling and  helpless.

          For a long time, nearly half a year, we have tried our best to communicated with him, expressing our care and love  for him.

            Yesterday, something different happened. We are told that he would go to a classmates home and  help each other with studies.  At 2 o'clock  in the afternoon, he got up and set off.

      Totally, he spet six hours outside for the first time since so many years ，studying and dining with his classmate.

            The second change is that he made a demand. That is，  if I work on my computer the next morning I must go out to the dining room. The reason is that the computer has  radiation.

I feel happy and thrilled from the bottom of my heart.  It shows that he    comes to take care of himself, comes to concern about himself.

        Well, that's marvelous. What I should do is to listen to him and follow his  reasonable and sensible requests.  Only in this way  can we build his self confidence again. Only in this way  can he find his voice and understand himself better.