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I have been talk with Obi this afternoon, we have talked the problem I face now， i asked that when unsatisfactory things happen, is it challenge or something else, i confuse that should i change myself or the outside environment, i feel that there are something cannot be changed, i also asked does he believe destiny, and his destiny, his answer superise me, which is quite different with me, he think his destiny is help people, for me i have think this question for long time, but never get answer, then i think, time will give answer, enjoy everyday, because only enjoy make me willing to keep on going. but the negative part is my problem didn't solve, Maybe he didn't catch my feeling, that I am much more confuse.

than we move on to one question culture group mention before, which is fashion trend of dress. for this question we have similar answer, we choice dress in what we like. basic on this question I asked does people dress fashion for pleasure other, he agree that human are social, want to belong to something. but I just feel I am not this kind of person. I always feel I am so different to find my type.

because this is my First time writing the process of discuss in group, I also want to conclude something about the discussion I have done before. Skype is my First one, favourite one as well, like a real friend, we talked anything and everything, really want to talk with her again, just so busy with school task and so many problem. second one is Amy, I asked some question like life, marriage, culture to her, Third is David, due to group's strong  recommendation, David is sooooo willing to share, and his mind is sooooo open, Maybe because he is America, or because he is a writer.

but the negative part is except Skype, it is always hard for me to understand the whole answer they give me. I have no clue does I discuss some question about the deep feeling of heart or something else, and how to solve it.