2019-5-28儿子生日

亲爱的宝贝：

这会马上进入美東时间2019-5-28-0:00（刚好也是中国的5月28号了）妈妈先祝你生日快乐！

时间过的真快一晃那个肉乎乎的小胖男孩已经长成一个英俊少年了（在妈妈眼里你永远最帅），有时候真的希望时光可以走的慢一点、再慢一点.

16岁，多么美好的年龄、同时也是一个多么危险的年龄、因为16岁是一个在法律意义上已经可以承担民事和刑事责任的年龄！

16岁、也许你会️心仪的女生可是人家不一定心仪你、也许又会被你不喜欢的女生喜欢、宝贝这些都是成长路上必定会经历的感情历程，从容面对、不要惊慌！但是不管任何时候不能做出伤害别人和自己的事情.珍惜每一段感情认真对待每一段感情、因为这些都是你以后岁月中美好的回忆！

16岁你会️各种奇奇怪怪的想法：比如换个发型、买个异装、在不违法和不伤害自己和他人的原则下、爸妈都会赞同和鼓励你多去尝试.（怎么样、老妈还是比较open的吧）

16岁、你可以计划拥有属于自己一个人的一次旅行，旅行中的见闻和突发情况都会让你更加成熟！

当然16岁的你一定还会有很多梦想、你可以把所有的梦想写在你的to do list 一年以后再来看看实现了多少！

16岁的你、也许还会经历不公、背叛、孤独、坏运、失败、无视和痛苦、但是有了这些经历、未来的你才会倍感珍惜公正、忠诚，朋友、机遇、竞技、倾听和同情！

千言万语无法表达妈妈的想法，妈妈希望你过好每一天：既️仰望星空的的豪情和勇气同时具备脚踏实地的作风和心态！一如既往地做一个善良、正直、对社会有用的人！

妈妈借大法官的话转赠于你：

From time to time in the years to come, I hope you will be treated unfairly, so that you will come to know the value of justice.

I hope that you will suffer betrayal because that will teach you the importance of loyalty.

I hope you will be lonely from time to time so that you don't take friends for granted.

I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either.

And when you lose, as you will from time to time, I hope every now and then, your opponent will gloat over your failure. It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship.

I hope you'll be ignored so you know the importance of listening to others, and I hope you will have just enough pain to learn compassion.

2019/5/27-EST23:56